Written Fatwa

Should I divorce?

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03.06.2022

I am a religious person, but my husband does not even pray. I realized this when I was engaged and wanted to break up, but I couldn't because my parents were not alive and my brother didn't want me in his house. Before we got married, my father-in-law promised me that I would live in a separate house. Now we live in a three-room flat with my mother-in-law, my divorced sister-in-law with two children, and my two brothers-in-law. I also found out that my husband has been cheating on me since I got married. I am depressed and have nowhere to go right now. I don't know if I should continue this marriage or end it. Guide me, what should I do?

May Allah help you.

Never see yourself as helpless and finished. When a person exaggerates his/her trouble, that trouble crushes him/her even more. Do it like this:

Consult with a psychologist lady how much you can handle the current situation. If that expert you meet face to face tells you "this marriage will not last", then you will consider divorce. Don't think about leaving for now. If you continue with this logic for a while, biiznillah, you will be more peaceful.

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